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> The way I learned Dutch came from having a long-distance relationship with a girl from Belgium. When I was visiting her on vacation her family... > We have now lived together in Sweden for five years, we're married... And yet they say long-term relationships don't work :/
You have no idea how many times we were told that over the years. We met via an online game 13 years ago (pretty much before online dating was a well-known thing). I was 15 at the time. A lot of people wanted to "save us from the inevitable heartbreak". Thankfully, our parents were nothing but supportive and happy for us.
Man, you're lucky. A girl who's into computer and games, that's just rare as diamond.
All the more reason to play online games!