> It's kind of disturbing to see (what I presume to be) a member of one of the best compensated demographics in one of the richest countries in the world suggest that while it's OK for a cashed-out founder to buy houses with their money (at least that's personal), before any of that money goes to a worthy charitable cause, other software developers should get dibs on it.
> I feel like you could not have fully thought this statement through.
I'm not sure I follow. Are you referring to myself being white, a male, my industry, the area in which I live? Why would my post, because of my race, gender, industry, area or country, make it disturbing whereas it may not have been otherwise? Where did I say other developers should "get dibs on" another founder's equity? Who mentioned "worthy charitable cause"? There are so few but I get the general impression you chose your words to try to make my comments appear worse than what they are.
When you give to charity you give money you do not need, correct? So when you pledge X percentage of your equity to charity while, at the same time, paying less than the average salary for your workers who are hoping to use their equity as another way of compensation should everything go well, you're saying that because it goes to charity and because of their demographics, everyone should feel fine?
I only talked about the emotions of such a decision. If someone tells you that they don't need a certain amount of money that they only made because of your and your team's hard work and you're being underpaid, you don't think you deserve to feel slighted? Because that's exactly what happens.
Next time, instead of trying to make me look like a monster for talking about feelings, how about we try to understand each other's view point and talk this out?