Here's what I want. - The UI to look as good or better than the UI on Mac OS X. I'm not willing to compromise on looks. - The library to be cross-platform. I want to deploy the software on Mac OS X, Windows, and Linux. I don't care about mobile right now. - I want it to be possible and easy to (a) develop new features on my own and (b) change existing features. I'd rather reimplement a textbox from scratch if it's th…
Pretty sure that C++ and Qt is what you want. Maybe not perfect in every sense, but widely used and battle-tested. If you don't want to deal with Windows, you can cross-compile for Windows from Linux using the mingw-* packages (eg https://fedoraproject.org/wiki/MinGW or the Debian or SUSE equivalents).
[1] http://mxe.cc/