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Presumably that kind of process rigor is necessary in massive, high-scope projects, and the fallout we see is chiefly from the inability to apply a more lightweight process for tiny projects?
The problem is I've worked with companies with a lot of "process rigor" (as you phrase it), which in theory should result in bug-free quality software. But it doesn't. The process rigor encourages checking stuff off of lists, but discourages the little ad-hoc fixes that make a product good. Nobody's going to fix the minor bug in the date entry field if it takes 4 hours of "process" to write the 4 minutes of code.
I work for IBM and believe me, the process and paperwork gets super tedious, but I understand why. The number of times I've had a client threaten to sue for breach of contract is staggering. If we didn't have a ton of process and paperwork showing a trail of evidence and every communication that led us to the final result, we'd be out of business so damn fast. Unfortunately some people really like to take unfair advantage of their vendors.
Let me give you an example. Last year I had a client who asked us to implement a solution and configure it according to their specifications. We did so, but they then realized that what they asked for was not what they actually wanted. The real event was more complicated, but for the sake of anonymity, let's say they wanted a weekly report as a bar graph, and when we delivered, they realized a pie chart made more sense. Now, being the good consultant I am, I switched the bar graph to a pie chart. It wasn't in the statement of work, but it only took a couple of hours and I like to keep my clients happy. After they got the pie chart, they said they liked the format but they wanted it switched from a weekly to a monthly report. Sure, it only takes a couple of hours. And then they wanted the monthly report, but the data resolution broken out into weeks instead of days. Only a couple of hours. And then they wanted the name of the report changed. A couple more hours. Bear in mind, this is all 100% custom development, from scratch.
Eventually we ran over budget and over time doing these minor tasks, because what the client asked for wasn't what they actually wanted. They demanded we keep going until they were happy. They hadn't signed off on this work being completed, so they claimed it wasn't done according to the contract.
A few weeks later we got a letter from their legal department, and in return we sent them the statement of work with everything checked off, and all of the emails we had sent back and forth between us and the client, showing where they acknowledged the scope was changing and we had said we would try our best, but couldn't guarantee anything other than what was in the SOW. We also showed where they refused to sign an extension of the project timeline and refused to sign a SOW change to formally add the new scope to the project. And that was the end of that story.
Every step of the way when something changed, even if we discussed it on the phone, we had a follow-up email to confirm. Everything we did got documented, every change was clearly spelled out as to what we changed and what was the original agreed-upon scope. Every scope change was approved by the PM and sometimes, one of my managers. And at the end of the project, we deliver all of this (sometimes hundreds of pages) in a nice, neat report detailing to the client what they hired us for and what we actually did. It takes forever and it doesn't guarantee the end result will be perfect. What it guarantees is that if we get sued, we have all the paperwork proving we did exactly what was agreed to in the contract.