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Not your fault - not talking about your service specifically! My IP was banned by several other companies (I assume from a list that was purchased from a third party) like Hulu/Netflix because I was simply relaying non-exit traffic. TOR and people who speak for the service often say that it's safe to run a non-exit relay. It isn't. It's tracked and punished. I know from first-hand experience.
Does Tor use it's own port? If so, how hard would it be to switch it to use something like 80, 23, or even 8080?
You can see for yourself: https://atlas.torproject.org