Why swearing is good for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lElf7D-An8

Why focus on the "other interaction" part? It's totally orthogonal to the point I was making. There could have BEEN other interaction, e.g. you might have blocked his cart in the supermarket aisle, or whatever.

The question is not if it was justified or remotely provoked response or not, but whether the receiver would be offended.

>but unless i care about their opinion, it's unlikely to offend

I doubt that really works that way in practice.

E.g. you're out and someone starts swearing at you, for whatever reason, and calling you various things in public. Sure, you could ignore it if it was just some crazy homeless person or something like that, but I doubt you'd ignore it if it was some other normal looking person.

Of course you could always say "yeah, I got angry, but that's because in this particular instance I cared about their opinion".

And how about them publicly calling e.g. you daughter names or something? You still wouldn't mind because you "don't care about their opinion"?

In the sense that you find something surprising, and ask for your God (as when you fear something, etc).

>Interesting. That's neither how I use it nor how I see it used around me. To me the main uses seem to be to express brief but intense emotion (your thumb/hammer case, but note that similar uses can convey surprise, awe, etc. as well as pain or annoyance), to add emphasis ("shit, that thing's fucking huge", "of course he can afford it -- this is Bill bloody Gates we're talking about", etc.), and to express disapproval ("don't buy that phone, it's a piece of shit").

Hence, "one of the main cases", not just the sole one. Besides, the latter case "it's a piece of shit" is still for insulting, just not a person but a product/company. It's not a critique or neutral disapproval, it's a dis.

>The last of those can be used to insult ("you arsehole!") but perhaps I move in particularly civilized circles because it's quite rare and almost always applied to people who aren't present (politicians, leaders of predatory businesses, etc.)

Not so sure about "civilized circles" -- except if we're talking about full California/Whole Foods/sandals and candlesticks kind of civilized. In my experience, you'll find those insults every day in any kind of circle, from the upper echelons of banking and Wall Street (heck, especially there), to truck drivers.

>When I hear people object to swearing on religious grounds (which, admittedly, is not very often) they are never objecting only to insults and expressions of hostility and, e.g., objections to swearing on television are never concerned only with such cases.

Perhaps, but they emphasized such cases, not merely hitting your thumb cases.

>OK, so tell me what you know about the moral norms surrounding language use in the 1st-century Roman-occupied Middle East, and how that enables you to know that saying "shit" or "fuck" today is the equivalent of what Jesus and St Paul were talking about.

Quite a lot. Reading history books can do that to a person.

I'm not even sure what you're asking though. Jesus explicitly mentioned some expressions that are exact equivalents of today's swear words ("idiot", "jerk", etc). Of course not all of them, but we can easily extrapolate the others.

Besides, we have lists of what's considered swearing, rules against swearing etc in Ancient Greece, Ancient Roman Empire, the Byzantium, China, Medieval Europe, etc. Maybe read a tome on the history of profanity and swearing and the cultural norms around them? There are several, both regional and all-around surveys.

Here's a recent one in English: https://www.amazon.com/Holy-Sh-Brief-History-Swearing/dp/019...

>but it seems to me exactly not the sort of thing Jesus ever says

What do you mean? Jesus explicitly says in Matthew: "who calls his brother an idiot" will be condemned etc.