Earlier quoted context omitted.
I used to think you had to live in an "it" city to make it. Then I realized that I could make my life whatever I wanted to be more easily in a less expensive place. The chains were in my head.
Yes, until you have a family. Then suddenly you need a good school nearby (and good luck bringing children to school in car if they have serious case of motion sickness).
That's maybe the worst excuse I've ever heard.
At least it's the worst for the last... 3 years probably.