Earlier quoted context omitted.
Cults focus on "we/us/them" not you doing what you feel is best for you.
In my experience a tremendous amount of religious teaching focuses on self-improvement (avoiding sin, cleansing of past sins, etc, etc). I do agree that the USA isn't a cult though. Too big/diverse.
"Oh my god, did they make you 'pledge allegiance' to that fucking flag too!? [1] That was so fucked up! And over 4 in 10 of us believe the earth was created 10,000 years ago??? [2] We're gonna kill the Earth, aren't we?"
[1] http://www.firstamendmentcenter.org/pledge-of-allegiance-sta...
[2] http://www.livescience.com/46123-many-americans-creationists...