Earlier quoted context omitted.
Yes man pages are usually upside-down; the examples should be right at the start and then lead to a drill-down into options. 9/10 times I end-up having to search the web for a basic introductory example. But even in big corps corps with ISO9000 accreditation there is seldom self- questioning as to whether documentation is useful rather than just ticking the box for process-completeness.
No. 90% of the time, I know what I want to do, and how my tools work. I just don't remember the options are called. Having a summary of the options right there at the top is the most valuable thing in a reference.
Most of the time, if I'm looking up a man-page for something, it's because I've just installed a new package that sounded like it would solve a problem and then did a dpkg-query(1) to find out what binaries came with it—or used apropos(1) to find a relevant binary already installed—and now I want to know what the uses of a given binary are and whether those uses include solving my particular problem.
† Well, except for the utilities with absolutely horrible command-line UX-design, like tar(1) or ps(1) or rsync(1), where I just memorize the options I need for my usual case, and then have to look in the man page to do anything novel.