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> Provided you don't hit AMT I think people downplay how easy it is to hit AMT. A single, no dependents, standard deduction filer making $120k will hit AMT after $26k of on paper gain for ISO exercise. Everything after that will be taxable. Filing jointly, 2 people who each earn $120k can absorb $18k in on paper gains from exercising ISOs. Add in a kid and it drops to $15k. That's a paltry sum, basically breaking any…
Yes but I believe you can (eventually) get the AMT difference back in offsets assuming there are later years when you are below the AMT limit. Fiendishly complicated and increasingly dumb though ...
It's a rough situation and something needs to change.