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Vest in peace or leave?

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Re: Vest in peace or leave?

#21
You have a 3rd option: start hacking towards happiness. At a giant company like G there are dozens of interesting projects. Take a positive attitude and get yourself assigned to one of them. Find the projects that interest you and take team members to lunch, find out what they are working on, what they need, etc. This may take months but may change your whole outlook on each day.

PS Don't walk away from that money unless you can replace a huge percentage of it elsewhere.

Re: Vest in peace or leave?

#22
post #5

I'd tough it out for a while if I were you. That's 'fuck you' money anywhere outside of the valley and NY. You have a whole lifetime to do whatever you want after this.

That's what I want to but everyday feels like a burden.

  Everyday feeling like a burden for 3  years
  is better than
  everyday feeling like a burder for 30 years.

Re: Vest in peace or leave?

#23
This is also a GREAT opportunity to work on something you typically wouldn't, hacking at night and weekends.

If you were forbidden from launching something for 3 years, what's the biggest thing you could be working on?

Re: Vest in peace or leave?

#24
I get it, the money isn't everything. It's hard to go into work. Every task feels like you can't get started on it.

I don't agree much with doing the things you don't want to do. But for that kind of money, you have to do it. Suck it up, do what you can to make it better, and when you have the fuck-you-money, well--tell 'em "fuck you" and do whatever you want, forever.

Vest in peace.

Re: Vest in peace or leave?

#25
Just do what most BigCo employees do. Half ass it and work on something interesting on the side while collecting a nice paycheck. (And in this case enjoying the delicious Google food.) It seems foolish to not stay at least through the end of year 2. 500k after tax is 2x 250k after tax. After year 2 you can leave in peace.

Re: Vest in peace or leave?

#26
post #15

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I tried with two week long leaves but the effect was ephemeral.

Yes, two weeks don't help at all. You are halfway through and already can count the days until stress begins again. I had two burnouts and both took me 2 to 3 months of doing nothing to recover from. I did nothing but have breakfast, watch TV, sleep, have lunch, watch TV, sleep, have dinner, watch TV, sleep. I was not back to normal after these 2 to 3 months, I was only at a level where I could go out and see friends…

Thanks. I think I am in same boat as you.

Re: Vest in peace or leave?

#27
post #23

This is also a GREAT opportunity to work on something you typically wouldn't, hacking at night and weekends. If you were forbidden from launching something for 3 years, what's the biggest thing you could be working on?

I thought about the same. But the soul sucking day implies that I am doing brain-dead activities at night and on the weekends.
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