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Well, indeed. Traditionally those have been used to discriminate against people. To the point that any competent HR department will ban you from asking women interviewees about children.
In some countries (e.g. Germany), asking such questions violates labor law.
Hire characters, not skill sets. My most important questions in interviews
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Re: Hire characters, not skill sets. My most important questions in interviews
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The problem with that strategy is that all too often, "smart people you'd like to work with" equates to male, white, upper-middle-class, with a fondness for beer.
So all interviewers are male, white upper-middle-class with a fondness for beer? Good to know.
Re: Hire characters, not skill sets. My most important questions in interviews
#93I sort of like the sentiment but this sort of interview, at least for me, would feel a bit too personal. Look I'm not your friend so let's not pretend that's what this or you just really want to get to know me. No. You just want to know if I can do the job so just get me to do a task which meaningfully reflects what I'd be doing day-to-day then ask me questions about it.
Do you not try to be friends with your colleagues? You spend about a third of your life at work, it seems to me that you should try to make it as enjoyable as possible.
"hey, what'd you do this weekend?"
"well, my friends and I run a historical re-enactment society where we all go to this remote retreat in the mountains, dress up as Nazis, and pretend that they won World War 2."
and you know what, if it was possible to just hold your finger down on the "rewind time" button for 15 seconds to just never ask this kind of friendly question, life would be so much easier. how do you reply to this? just stay out of other peoples business if you have to work with them.
Re: Hire characters, not skill sets. My most important questions in interviews
#94Wow.. I feel super provoked by the question "What's cool about you?". I wonder why..
It is presumptuous and pretentious: 'Are you good enough by my own arbitrary and vague standards to be around me' is the underlying question.
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Being friends with colleagues can lead to less enjoyable work situations, not to mention less focused work. Being friendly should suffice, not all of us want to get too personal with the same people we might need to have professional arguments with. We're all different.
I'll share a bit of wisdom my son shared when he was 4 or 5. In kindergarden they talked about what a friend is, and he said after some thinking: "A friend is a person you can disagree and fight with, and still play with later".
Re: Hire characters, not skill sets. My most important questions in interviews
#96This sounds like a cool idea, but I've seen where hiring for personality often leads towards hiring discrimination. I think it's more likely to reinforce the lack of diversity in tech than to combat it as people unlike the interviewer tend to be viewed less favorably and would be less likely to be viewed as a person who could pick up the specific knowledge he/she doesn't already know.
> I think it's more likely to reinforce the lack of diversity in tech than to combat it... I have mixed feelings about this. I have a hard time valuing diversity for its own sake, especially since there are so many qualities to have diversity in, and especially since the ones that actually affect the organization (like diversity of perspective) are so hard to measure and quantify. That being said, it's hard for me to…
It's not about quotas or diversity for diversity's sake. It's about recognizing that we all bring our own cultural lens to a situation and not being aware of how that influences your perception can lead to judging great people more negatively because they're not like you.
The challenge is that one has to be self-aware enough to recognize their own biases and still make some value judgments on personality.
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#97Re: Hire characters, not skill sets. My most important questions in interviews
#98So candidates where preparing for "what's your biggest weakness" and now they have to prepare for a twist of the also common "tell me about yourself"? again this question filters for people who practiced the question and are enthusiastic (or fake it).
Enthusiasm is good. Faking enthusiasm is still better than crossing your arms and demanding you be judged on your GitHub profile alone and not have to answer questions about yourself.
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Well, indeed. Traditionally those have been used to discriminate against people. To the point that any competent HR department will ban you from asking women interviewees about children.
In some countries (e.g. Germany), asking such questions violates labor law.
I'm a guy so I've never been asked about kids until after being hired, and even then just conversationally at lunch.