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It's possible that you're one of the unlucky people who falls into the combination you described above. Unfortunately, even the best system currently available will often have cracks, and you seem to have found the one that currently exists. The vast majority of the time, kids with rich parents have a substantially blessed childhood & family-support, which justifies them having to pay substantially more in tuition fe…
I tend to dislike systems of the form "if you make/own less than $X, you get $Y benefit". It often leads to nasty non-monotonic outcomes and like this. For actual public benefits, I'd much prefer to give all the benefits to all the people and raise taxes accordingly. This means that, as a CA resident, I think I should be permitted to deduct rent even if my AGI is $38,259, and I think I should get the full Affordable…
I appreciate your sentiment, but you realize all of the insurance companies will just raise their rates by the amount of the subsidy, right? More demand in the form of government money earmarked for a specific good, with the same supply of the good, means higher prices.