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ArangoDB is free open source multi model no-sql db that has decent¹ perfomance with graph support: https://www.arangodb.com ¹ https://www.arangodb.com/2015/10/benchmark-postgresql-mongod...
"The performance will suffer if the dataset is much bigger than the memory." That is a huge drawback when compared to relational databases. A good follow-up question would be: which open-source graph databases can reasonably import and store graph data that's not small -- that is, more data than fits in than RAM? Without proprietary extensions?
Can easily load large to very large graphs.