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I'd also point out that Jobs was know to have become less of an asshole by the time he returned to Apple. Some people think it was reconnecting to his family that helped but who knows. You can demand greatness without being an asshole. You can tell someone the work they did isn't good enough without being an asshole. You can also truthfully review someone's bad code without being an asshole, for what it's worth. Bein…
> "Being an asshole != "telling it like it is" though most people confuse the two." This reminds me of an old quote. "People who are brutally honest generally enjoy the brutality more than the honesty."
You tell someone something they don't want to hear, but need to hear, and you are now known as an asshole.