Well excuse me for not fitting your prejudiced profile for a neurotypical extroverted 20-something white male. Yes, I might have needed the clarification between "how long will it take you to paint the room" vs "how long until the room is back the way it was with the walls in a different colour", but you help noone when you talk down to the painter like that. You asked a question and I misunderstood, because we use slightly different language and I have a ton of other things to think about all the time.
Can we stop this "oh let's treat engineers like they're children with mental development issues" already? I'm not some god in an ivory tower, I don't want you to kneel before me, I just want the usual everyday respect you afford to your peers and to engage with me as one professional with another.
This kind of treatment is not ok.