Can you think outside of the communist box? Competition is in part due to the fact there are more humans alive today fighting for the same resources. It's kinda similar to dating, where things are not getting easier(except for those who inherited good genes). Today with dating you have to do more to get the same result people use to get with less effort. Lack of social safety net? Why do you care about that? You don'…
So maybe think outside your own box and figure out if there's any cheap social policy that would improve the lot of such people? I come up with: legalize prostitution, shorten copyright terms for pornography. Maybe lower emphasis on marriage and greater acceptance of polyamory, though that could go both ways. Try to culturally de-emphasize sex, and provide more life paths where singledom is accepted or expected (e.g. I've heard it argued that monasteries used to serve this function).
> So, why not hold wage earners to the same standard?
Huh? That's backwards. If giving everyone a decent dating partner was as easy as raising taxes a little bit and subsidising a few government-run services, of course we'd do it.