Earlier quoted context omitted.
I got an offer from a late-stage (not sure if that's the right term, but they had a shipping product) non-public startup that included 10,000 stock options. That sounded like a lot, but I had problems evaluating that number without knowing the shares outstanding. I asked for that figure, and was told it was privileged and confidential. I decided to value the options at $0, and instead think of them like a non-monetar…
If they told you that the number of outstanding shares was privileged and confidential they are crooks in nice suits. Also at this point in time there is so much shady stuff going on with options that you should always always value options at zero. Frankly if all you are offering is your labor in return for options you don't have the pull to get a particularly good deal. (Example: Friend worked three years at a start…
Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity.
Getting a seed round doesn't magically confer the founders/C*Os with an comprehensive understanding of how company equity works. Or common sense.