I'm really interested in other people's experiences with understanding how their stock options work. It seems really easy to misunderstand something serious, even if you know quite a lot about equity.
I got an offer from a late-stage (not sure if that's the right term, but they had a shipping product) non-public startup that included 10,000 stock options. That sounded like a lot, but I had problems evaluating that number without knowing the shares outstanding. I asked for that figure, and was told it was privileged and confidential. I decided to value the options at $0, and instead think of them like a non-monetar…
At least they should be able to tell you the common strike price and ideally the fair market value of preferred shares. This would let you benchmark things fairly well.
What does late stage mean? How many employees? How much funding raised?