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Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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Re: Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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In addition to all the most popular bars and restaurants, it lists "beer tent", a thing which only exists one weekend of the year when my town holds it's annual seafood festival. The rest of the year that location is the middle of a main street (which gets closed off for the festival).

I think that makes it clear that this is listing places that people have previously mentioned on social media.

Re: Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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Pretty inaccurate for Sunnyvale CA. Among its list of local empty spots is a restaurant that's packed every time I go to it and a park that's always filled with parents with young children, senior citizens out walking, and impromptu pickup games of soccer & volleyball. I think this is more like "Avoid Foursquare and Instagram users", which may have some value to it anyway.

Terrible recommendations for my neighborhood in Oakland... the top 3 recommended places are the 3 of the most popular and crowded restaurants and bars in the area. The top one being the restaurant that's so busy it's generally hard to walk past on the sidewalk because there are so many people waiting out front.

Re: Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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I recently asked a friend in Manhattan how people there cope with the lack of personal space. She told me that whenever she needs a break from social interaction she just eats in a restaurant by herself. There may be hundreds of others around but they'll generally sense that you don't want to be bothered.

I just left New York after 12 years. One day, while I still lived there, I decided to see if there was anywhere I could be in Manhattan without seeing another human being in my field of vision. It took me several weeks of exploring possibilities, none of which were successful. Even Central Park didn't work, there was always someone wandering by, no matter how remote the spot.

I finally found the only spot where I could be for 30 minutes at a time, in total isolation. The New York Marble Cemetery on 2nd Avenue, in the East Village. It's a small patch of land, hidden down a narrow alleyway, behind a gate, open to the public just one day a month. It looks like nothing but a lawn surrounded by stone walls, because there are no headstones. It became my favorite day of the month, that one Sunday when I could go sit on a lawn in silence and solitude.

Re: Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Every few years my uncle takes a fishing trip in Alaska. He and two or three others are dropped off by plane and raft down a river for a week. Once a day the plane flies overhead to check up on them and at the end of the week picks them up. Other than that they never see another person.

I'm curious - wouldn't it be cheaper to check in with a sat phone daily, rather than having a bush pilot do a flyover?

perhaps the pilot doesn't have to divert much from their regular route to check in. Do they usually fly daily?

Re: Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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I recently asked a friend in Manhattan how people there cope with the lack of personal space. She told me that whenever she needs a break from social interaction she just eats in a restaurant by herself. There may be hundreds of others around but they'll generally sense that you don't want to be bothered.

I just left New York after 12 years. One day, while I still lived there, I decided to see if there was anywhere I could be in Manhattan without seeing another human being in my field of vision. It took me several weeks of exploring possibilities, none of which were successful. Even Central Park didn't work, there was always someone wandering by, no matter how remote the spot. I finally found the only spot where I cou…

That's beautiful, thanks for sharing.

Re: Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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If you can deal wih maybe 20 people, a rafting trip on the Tamur in Nepal is the closest I have come to absolutely "no one else here". No wifi. No electricity. A couple of nights with only the group and a large bonfire.

Dealing with twenty people doesn't sound like solitude.

Plenty of places in the world you can get in a car, drive out somewhere, and be completely alone.

Re: Avoid Humans: Your temporary respite from the masses

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I recently asked a friend in Manhattan how people there cope with the lack of personal space. She told me that whenever she needs a break from social interaction she just eats in a restaurant by herself. There may be hundreds of others around but they'll generally sense that you don't want to be bothered.

I like late-night park walks. Very relaxing, very few people.

UK Midlands: Early mornings on Saturday or Sunday. My route over to a nice inner city area with coffee shops that do good eggs is through some small parks and a light industrial area. Canal towpaths for part of the route.

No people visible, but people in some of the factories and the very occasional jogger on the towpaths so not total isolation.

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