> Presumably then controlling population growth
I take it you still haven't seen that TED talk. A key point Hans Rosling makes (which he expands upon in greater detail in several of his other talks). In this talk, he explains
... there are two things that can increase the energy use. First, population
growth. Second, economic growth. Population growth will mainly occur among the
poorest people here because they have high child mortality and they have many
children per woman. ...
You may not have noticed, but China hasn't been very successful at legislating population growth. Meanwhile, some areas
have slowed their population growth. Japan is actually concerned that they are
losing population.
The way you control population is \to bring people up to a standard of living that no longer requires having large families (i.e. for farm work, etc). China knows this. They aren't stupid - they certainly understand the costs of allowing terrible ("equivalent to a pack/day cigarette habit") smog. China also understands that if they can stabilize their population by raising their lifestyle. Hence they are using incredible amount of coal as a short-term workaround while they work on the largest public-works infrastructure projects in the world (e.g. Three Gorges, their current breeder reactor project).
> some magic CO2-neutral power source
A nuclear power generator is not magic.
> save energy
You say this as if engineers aren't constantly creating new ways to make energy usage more efficient. Of course they have - engineers hate energy waste. We have been slowly improving efficiency. Obviously we should continue this process, but it will never be enough to significantly impact the the total energy used in the world.
> it seems to me that if "convenience X" involves a lot of energy, it will also involve a lot of nuisance
This is absolutely not true in general. Many things oonly become possible when you reach a minimum of energy.