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I think there are two separate things in your comment: the recent instability is due to the leadership power struggle that has been resolved, but the "no recommended approach" problem is more the result of a philosophy that encourages tiny pieces, new ideas, and reinvention, which is both a blessing and a curse, and seems unlikely to change.
You can have both. An 'officially recommended approach' does not preclude 1000 unofficial but working approaches. However, it does it make it a lot easier for someone dipping their toes in. With Node for core and basic problems, I find myself thinking "Should I follow this blog post written by a highly respected developer but which is a year old and therefore forever in Node-land, or this blog post written last week…
It seems that you don't like Node and are intent not to use it. I respect that and am not trying to push it. I think asynchronous programming in the reactor pattern is a good solution pattern for many types of problems, and Node.js is a solid application of that pattern. But it certainly is more complicated than synchronous programming in the kinds of environments you listed.
I do wonder however what compels you to shit all over a thread celebrating a project milestone with an opinion that comes from an admitted lack of knowledge.