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Re: Ask HN: Is your company (job) family friendly?

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It would be helpful to add a maternity/paternity leave column to your great spreadsheet. Staggeringly, the United States still lacks a national unpaid leave policy. Plus companies in other countries on your spreadsheet might offer additional leave than what is required.

No, we have a national unpaid leave policy (FMLA). What we don't have, and desperately need, is a paid leave policy.

Re: Ask HN: Is your company (job) family friendly?

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> Companies OK with working 35 hour weeks? It seems reasonable to me to target 35 considering it seems reasonable to you to expect overtime.

It's interesting that there aren't more companies doing 30-35hr weeks. With the amount of sentiment like this on HN alone, I'm surprised there aren't engineers going out and starting shorter-work-week companies. I know of Treehouse which has a 4-day workweek[0], but I can't think of any others. I can think of a few reasons why companies wouldn't do this ("leaving money on the table", force of habit, investors, schedu…

Well, I do 35. Took me 3 tries to find a job like that :D

You're on HN, the startup community. The premise of startups is that young engineers give their life to create products in exchange for free food and a bit of experience, while the executives and the VC will take all the returns, if any. It's really not family friendly.

Re: Ask HN: Is your company (job) family friendly?

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That's why you have one stay at home parent.

I agree, which is why I upboated you. My wife is a stay at home mom. Makes life way better for all of us, much less stressful for the children and she enjoys it. I wish more women would consider it, especially if their husbands make a living wage. Life isn't all about money.

How insulting. Choosing to work rather than spending 24 hours a day with your children isn't always all about money.

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I agree, which is why I upboated you. My wife is a stay at home mom. Makes life way better for all of us, much less stressful for the children and she enjoys it. I wish more women would consider it, especially if their husbands make a living wage. Life isn't all about money.

How insulting. Choosing to work rather than spending 24 hours a day with your children isn't always all about money.

Yes it is.

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Well, Marissa Mayer can afford to pay someone to take care of her twins. The typical small company or early stage startup exec, not so much.

Not unusual, though, for a lower end CEO to foist off all parenting on their spouse.

Good point.

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I was working for a company that was moving from remote work to full-time in the office. My former co-worker and I decided to start our own company so we could stay remote and close to our families. I have 7 kids, he has 8 and we both homeschool. That was almost 6 years ago and I've never regretted it. If you value time with your family, nobody is a better boss than you. It's not unusual for me to shoot an IM over to…

How do your kids adapt to social interactions with kids of their age, spending 24/7 with your family might be tiring and in young age there is a big difference between 3 and 5 year olds, I think they need to interact with kids of their age and different cultures to be better adapt in future life, that's just my opinion, I might be wrong?

You're not wrong - there are a huge number of homeschool groups, co-ops, classes, etc. Most homeschooling families actively try to socialize their kids with art classes, sports teams, and so on. There tends to be more supervision as well so there's less bullying too.

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I agree, which is why I upboated you. My wife is a stay at home mom. Makes life way better for all of us, much less stressful for the children and she enjoys it. I wish more women would consider it, especially if their husbands make a living wage. Life isn't all about money.

How insulting. Choosing to work rather than spending 24 hours a day with your children isn't always all about money.

No it isn't.

Re: Ask HN: Is your company (job) family friendly?

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I was working for a company that was moving from remote work to full-time in the office. My former co-worker and I decided to start our own company so we could stay remote and close to our families. I have 7 kids, he has 8 and we both homeschool. That was almost 6 years ago and I've never regretted it. If you value time with your family, nobody is a better boss than you. It's not unusual for me to shoot an IM over to…

How do your kids adapt to social interactions with kids of their age, spending 24/7 with your family might be tiring and in young age there is a big difference between 3 and 5 year olds, I think they need to interact with kids of their age and different cultures to be better adapt in future life, that's just my opinion, I might be wrong?

There probably are numerous advantages to homeschooling, but I have a hard time finding convincing evidence. Either it's anecdotes from a small community of homeschooling parents or a study commissioned by an organization that has a vested interest in homeschooling, or authored by a leading member thereof. Significantly, I find that the people who share positive anecdotes are in higher wealth brackets and very well-educated, and I'm not aware of any studies that control for this.
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