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Re: Ask HN: Do you do any mentoring outside of work?

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I hope this is not frowned upon, but I'll hijack this thread to say: I'd love to have a mentor.

Same here, man. Same here

PM me and let me know how I can help. We can set up an initial set of emails.

1. What you currently do 2. What you would like to be doing/learning 3. Where you want to go From there, we can discuss how we can both work on your development.

Re: Ask HN: Do you do any mentoring outside of work?

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post #8

I hope this is not frowned upon, but I'll hijack this thread to say: I'd love to have a mentor.

PM me and let me know how I can help. We can set up an initial set of emails. 1. What you currently do 2. What you would like to be doing/learning 3. Where you want to go From there, we can discuss how we can both work on your development. Thank you,

How does one PM on HN?

Re: Ask HN: Do you do any mentoring outside of work?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

What are you interested in learning?

Being a few years into my programming career, I'd be really grateful for somebody to help/guide at a higher level than, say, learning language X or pattern Y. It's a bit tough to clearly define, but I think I don't know any developer that is really striving towards mastery on any level, with most colleagues and acquaintances doing the bare minimum to get by.

> with most colleagues and acquaintances doing the bare minimum to get by.

The best way to level your skills up fast as a junior developer is to work somewhere where most of your coworkers are skilled and passionate. It sounds like you're not in one of those places (which is normal -- unfortunately most developers aren't). If changing workplaces isn't an option, then your second-best alternative is to get involved with an active, well-run open source project with high code quality[1]. Generally corporate-sponsored projects work best, because they'll have one or more people explicitly in charge of helping community members learn the ropes and be productive, but other large, cohesive projects could work too.

[1]: One of the best things I've done for my career was to get heavily involved with the React Native community a few years ago. I'm not currently using RN directly, but through contributing to it I learned a great deal about software engineering and project management, and it was a nice resume item that helped me land my next job.

Re: Ask HN: Do you do any mentoring outside of work?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

PM me and let me know how I can help. We can set up an initial set of emails. 1. What you currently do 2. What you would like to be doing/learning 3. Where you want to go From there, we can discuss how we can both work on your development. Thank you,

How does one PM on HN?

HN has no PM feature - some users who wish to be contacted leave some kind of contact point (e-mail, website, etc) in their profile.

Re: Ask HN: Do you do any mentoring outside of work?

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I wouldn't feel confident to mentor anyone on anything. I'd feel like a total fraud. This can't be uncommon. When I was a developer, I either felt like what I was doing could be done by a smart highschooler (probably better than I was doing it) because it was straight forward, or like I was figuring things out as I went along (because it was hard). Now I do less development and more business analysis / architecture,…

of course it isn't uncommon. in fact, it's so common it has a name: imposter syndrome. mentoring is probably a good way to kick that self-doubt, because it will make you realize how much you have to offer.

if you're happy in your new role, good for you! but to any developers experiencing imposter syndrome: there will always be people who seem smarter than you, and there will (hopefully!) always be jobs that are a struggle. it doesn't mean you're a fraud. use them both as resources to become one of those people who seem smarter than you. then find new people who seem smarter than you and repeat.

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