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arranged marriages are usually family introductions and rarely forced. the way they limit choice is by constraining potential partners to your own caste or community, to the suprem…

sigh - but management can do a better job managing and if victims know what or how to recognize problems, they can be better prepared to deal with the situation more effectively. w…

this person is a troll - just read his comments. don't bother engaging.

i don't work there any longer. i don't believe in allowing anyone the kind of leverage that results in me being abused.

i agree about walking away, but i think by the time you think its a legal issue, its too late. its not easy to find a job when you have anxiety or depression - i tried a lot to do …

indian women being considered "exotic" is one of those..

From my response There was no quote because it was him being nicer to me than to the other men thought he should have been - it was actually him not treating me like a second class…

read the blog.

thanks :-) and i really do appreciate your support of me in the threads. more than one guy has defended my post for me and that has been encouraging to see :-) honestly, not all me…

I wasn't being defensive - he WAS treating others unfairly too ... you think they would have sprung on me if he had not been an ass to them and they hadn't felt threatened ? I am t…

I think I was being sarcastic. Publishing this post has been a draining experience for me and I don't think I can be trusted to make coherent arguments about this issue for a while…

If things happen in places that have cameras, maybe it is helpful. But otherwise ? These things just happen - they cannot really be anticipated.

is the fact that Apple thought to issue me an apology not enough proof that I am not making things up ?

I understand what you meant, but what I said is that public discussions on these issues are career-impacting, and usually negatively. As painful as sexism is, I don't think it is p…

thank you :-) i needed your empathy :-) my earlier attempts to respond sooner to your comment failed to get posted. :-/ i would have thought my saying that apple apologized would b…

thanks for the defense. a woman would have to be foolish to create such a ruckus about "just sexism". we just suck that part up as part of our jobs.

what about the livelihood of the victim ? is that not at stake because of someone else's misbehavior ?

sigh. i did not take any favors - i want my career to be built on merit and not favoritism - that is why i left the company. but do people realize that's not actually fair ? and th…

look at the skeptics in this thread as an example .. does it give you a warm and fuzzy ? this is a stressful thread to read.

i will agree. from unfortunate personal experience.

thanks a lot :) sorry you had to do that. i will look at the book. :-)

anyway, i only said the company needs to encourage investigations and reporting, not discourage them. this has nothing to do with people at all - it is the company's attitude that …

to be honest, women's careers are ruined far more than men. how many men do you know who have been ostracized ? trump is president for crying out loud.. and ailes is happily workin…