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Ask HN: What did you do (or wish you did) when you got out of highschool?

#1
Basically, I graduate from highschool in a week and have no idea what I should do.

I currently live in a small town in Northern California where there's not much room for opportunity... So far my plan is to get a minimum-wage job and save up until I can afford to move to Sacramento, where I have a couple friends I can live with and obviously better job opportunities. I plan on going to college and getting a degree in CS afterwards, and then try to make my way into the tech industry.

Is this a bad idea? ... What should I do if so?

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#2
If you want to break into the tech industry, the best thing you can do right now is just start building stuff. Think of a mobile app or a web app that has a simple purpose that you think would be useful, then use the internet to teach yourself how to build it. If you can pull that off then you have a very good shot at a career as a developer. If you can't then you probably either don't have the drive or the aptitude, in which case you'll be spending a few more years figuring out what you want to do.

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#3
Three months after my high school graduation, I moved to Silicon Valley. It was one of the best choices I could have made.

I grew up in a small desert town with not much room to grow. The opportunities there were limited for what I wanted to do, and I knew that if I was still living in that town when I was 40, or even 30, I wouldn't be happy.

Being the procrastinator that I am, I knew that I had to take action immediately, or I would inevitably fall into a lull of complacence: a mediocre job, a girlfriend, a dog? And then I would be stuck; eternally glued to this town that I hated by second-rate obligations. (Not entirely true, people make drastic changes even with other obligations all the time, but it's not common.)

I was (and still am) young, and I believe that you should take as many calculated risks as possible when you're young. Do it before you have a mortgage, a spouse, a kid. It's so much easier then, because failing doesn't mean letting your child go hungry, or losing your home and living on the streets. Worst case, you have to move back in with your parents (assuming they're supportive).

When I'm laying on my deathbed and analyzing my life, I would rather regret trying and failing to achieve my dreams than regret not trying at all. When it gets right down to it, I don't think I would regret failing one bit. Failure is part of life, and since I've moved here I've failed plenty of times. Probably more times than I've succeeded. But the value of my few successes outweighs my many failures, and that's the key.

I've gotten a good job, learned and grown more than I would have imagined possible, met dozens of amazing people, made lifelong friends, co-founded an organization, and I'm happier than I've ever been. Not only that, but I'm excited for the future.

I've still got a long way to go, but I'm so glad that I had the courage and drive to go out of my comfort zone, into a completely foreign situation, all alone, and just do it. Granted, I was extremely lucky to have the full support of my parents and family, but even if I hadn't I think I still would have gone out and done it.

Of course, this is not advice for everyone. It's not really advice at all, just my own experience. Yours may vary. Best of luck.

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#4

If you want to break into the tech industry, the best thing you can do right now is just start building stuff. Think of a mobile app or a web app that has a simple purpose that you think would be useful, then use the internet to teach yourself how to build it. If you can pull that off then you have a very good shot at a career as a developer. If you can't then you probably either don't have the drive or the aptitude,…

I know I have the aptitude... drive would be my problem. I just find it difficult to actually want to work on something. That's not really abnormal is it?...

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post #4

If you want to break into the tech industry, the best thing you can do right now is just start building stuff. Think of a mobile app or a web app that has a simple purpose that you think would be useful, then use the internet to teach yourself how to build it. If you can pull that off then you have a very good shot at a career as a developer. If you can't then you probably either don't have the drive or the aptitude,…

I know I have the aptitude... drive would be my problem. I just find it difficult to actually want to work on something. That's not really abnormal is it?...

Why going into tech industry actually ?

As obvious as it sounds, you should go into the field that you are passionate about.

As one old dude said a long time ago: "Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude"

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#7
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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I know I have the aptitude... drive would be my problem. I just find it difficult to actually want to work on something. That's not really abnormal is it?...

Why going into tech industry actually ? As obvious as it sounds, you should go into the field that you are passionate about. As one old dude said a long time ago: "Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude"

Because the tech industry is what I'm passionate about. My lack of drive comes from things like lack of self-confidence and motivation.

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#8
post #7

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Why going into tech industry actually ? As obvious as it sounds, you should go into the field that you are passionate about. As one old dude said a long time ago: "Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude"

Because the tech industry is what I'm passionate about. My lack of drive comes from things like lack of self-confidence and motivation.

You should read the essay "How to do what you love" by pg [0]. One thing he says is that it's easy to think you love something just because it has lots of prestige around it. I don't know you, so it is possible that you will love technology, but from your comment "Because the tech industry is what I'm passionate about. My lack of drive comes from things like lack of self-confidence and motivation.", it seems to me that you're into it just because it seems cool from the outside. At least for me, it's impossible to be passionate about something and lacking of drive about the same thing.

What is it in the tech industry you are passionate about? Do you like to solve complex problem through coding? Do you think technology can give you more leverage? The tech industry is huge, so my advice for you would be first to find what you really like about technology.

One more thing. Maybe you will find my comment contemptuous, but I promise you that it is not the case. I am just writing what I would like to have read when I was younger.

[0] http://paulgraham.com/love.html

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#9
Why take a minimum wage job when you can probably contract yourself out doing a number of different things? I worked part-time one summer for $6/hr ( ~ 0.75 higher than minimum wage ) in between sophomore/junior year in high school. Towards the end of the summer, I started mowing some lawns for some people I knew and was making ~$20 per lawn ( which took about an hour each ).

Next summer, I figured if I only mowed one lawn a day, I'd make the same $$$. Ended up mowing 10+ lawns a week at $25-40 a piece ( I averaged ~$20 - $25/hr depending on the week ). My favorite move was to go to my customer's neighbors and say "Hi! I'm cutting Sam's lawn for $x. If you let me cut your lawn for $x - $5, I'll knock $5 off Sam's lawn as well. Get your lawn cut and save your neighbor some cash." That worked pretty well and kept my transit time down.

Even if you take a min wage job for stability, try contracting yourself out a bit on the side and bank that cash. You'll get where you're going quicker.

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#10

Why take a minimum wage job when you can probably contract yourself out doing a number of different things? I worked part-time one summer for $6/hr ( ~ 0.75 higher than minimum wage ) in between sophomore/junior year in high school. Towards the end of the summer, I started mowing some lawns for some people I knew and was making ~$20 per lawn ( which took about an hour each ). Next summer, I figured if I only mowed on…

That's a hell of a sales tactic in a market where social ties matter. Kudos to you for figuring it out.
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