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Re: How successful are you?

#2
This is a really difficult question to answer as what you consider success will change as you age. I am not a success if I consider what I thought this meant at 20, but I am now pretty happy with what I have done. I have a fantastic wife, three great boys, a business I enjoy working in that allows me to support and enjoy my family, and I am healthy. This feels like success to me right now :)

Re: How successful are you?

#3
His definition of success reminds me of Bill Watterson's advice: http://zenpencils.com/comic/128-bill-watterson-a-cartoonists...

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Creating a life that reflects your values and satisfies your soul is a rare achievement. In a culture that relentlessly promotes avarice and excess as the good life, a person happy doing his own work is usually considered an eccentric, if not a subversive. Ambition is only understood if it’s to rise to the top of some imaginary ladder of success. Someone who takes an undemanding job because it affords him the time to pursue other interests and activities is considered a flake. A person who abandons a career in order to stay home and raise children is considered not to be living up to his potential — as if a job title and salary are the sole measure of human worth.

You’ll be told in a hundred ways, some subtle and some not, to keep climbing, and never be satisfied with where you are, who you are, and what you’re doing. There are a million ways to sell yourself out, and I guarantee you’ll hear about them.

To invent your own life’s meaning is not easy, but it’s still allowed, and I think you’ll be happier for the trouble.

-- Bill Watterson (creator of Calvin & Hobbes)

Re: How successful are you?

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I've got four healthy kids and a loving wife (for almost 27 years). We live comfortably and feel incredibly blessed ... what more could I ask for out of life?

Re: How successful are you?

#8
Perhaps a more valuable question: how many people sit down, hopefully starting early in life, to define what success is to them? And how many people keep reevaluating that definition?

If being successful means getting what you want, what people seem to want is relatedness, competence and autonomy, whatever that translates to for each person.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-determination_theory#Basic...

Re: How successful are you?

#10
I've got money, a house, cars, flexibility to take whatever time off I need, international travel ... all I want in life. Except no wife or kids.

Not feeling very successful right now.

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