How successful are you?
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How successful are you?
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Creating a life that reflects your values and satisfies your soul is a rare achievement. In a culture that relentlessly promotes avarice and excess as the good life, a person happy doing his own work is usually considered an eccentric, if not a subversive. Ambition is only understood if it’s to rise to the top of some imaginary ladder of success. Someone who takes an undemanding job because it affords him the time to pursue other interests and activities is considered a flake. A person who abandons a career in order to stay home and raise children is considered not to be living up to his potential — as if a job title and salary are the sole measure of human worth.
You’ll be told in a hundred ways, some subtle and some not, to keep climbing, and never be satisfied with where you are, who you are, and what you’re doing. There are a million ways to sell yourself out, and I guarantee you’ll hear about them.
To invent your own life’s meaning is not easy, but it’s still allowed, and I think you’ll be happier for the trouble.
-- Bill Watterson (creator of Calvin & Hobbes)
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#6If getting home by 5.30 is important, you should look into moving to Sweden, 6 hour work day ? Also free health care and blondes!
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#7I've got four healthy kids and a loving wife (for almost 27 years). We live comfortably and feel incredibly blessed ... what more could I ask for out of life?
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#8If being successful means getting what you want, what people seem to want is relatedness, competence and autonomy, whatever that translates to for each person.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-determination_theory#Basic...
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#10Not feeling very successful right now.