I'll give this letter to the girl I like

#1

Post by udb » Thu, Dec 05, 2013, 9:34 AM UTC

hi .

as you know my name, i'm a simple guy, may not be perfect but i'm cool enough.

this letter will tell what i couldn't tell you directly.

okay.. i saw you last year during and at the first glance you took my attention and you seemed to be my very own.

that night i just thought about you... and later i realized that i fall in love with you, the most beautiful girl i have ever seen!

so i tried to talk to you many times, you know...

every single moment i think about you and everyday i wait for the time when i will see you... i can't express the feeling that i have seeing you...

you told me that you've boyfriend... i understand but my heart says you don't have... dont get me wrong. whatever, you're attached to my heart and i can't forget you.

please, please give me a chance to be your friend at least...

finally i would like to dedicate this song to you "Bin Tere (Reprise)". please listen this song for me - http://goo.gl/khBKcU

- love

Re: I'll give this letter to the girl I like

#2

Post by onion2k » Thu, Dec 05, 2013, 9:51 AM UTC

That won't come across as creepy at all.

Clue: People want to be respected for who they are. If you don't know someone, if you've not spent time talking to them and getting to know them, you don't know them and consequently any declaration of 'love', attraction, etc is a manifestation of your delusional fantasies about what they're like rather than a real respect for who they actually are. People don't want to be someone else's fantasy. They want to be someone's reality.

If there's someone out there who you like the look of, tell them that you want to get to know them better. That's "the secret". There's literally nothing more to it. If they like the look of you they'll say yes, otherwise move on.

Why am I handing out dating advice on HN? This is weird.

Re: I'll give this letter to the girl I like

#3

Post by udb » Thu, Dec 05, 2013, 10:02 AM UTC

onion2k wrote: post #2

That won't come across as creepy at all . Clue: People want to be respected for who they are. If you don't know someone, if you've not spent time talking to them and getting to know them, you don't know them and consequently any declaration of 'love', attraction, etc is a manifestation of your delusional fantasies about what they're like rather than a real respect for who they actually are. People don't want to be so…

thanks for this advice.

Re: I'll give this letter to the girl I like

#4

Post by weland » Thu, Dec 05, 2013, 10:44 AM UTC

Dude, don't do it.