Ask HN: Mother driving me crazy over getting a job. What to do?

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Post by mothertrouble » Fri, Sep 13, 2013, 12:58 AM UTC

I've been working fulltime for 10 years and last year I quit my job to try freelancing so that I can create cool things of my own and for the clients. I am struggling to get clients and most of my saved money is gone but I do get enough clients to keep going at a bare minimum lifestyle.

My mother is telling me to stop this madness and get a job. She thinks I waste my life by being a freelancer. She is driving me to the brink of depression. As an entrepreneur have you face similar problems with your family members?

Re: Ask HN: Mother driving me crazy over getting a job. What to do?

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Post by doctorwho » Fri, Sep 13, 2013, 4:35 AM UTC

If you've blown through 10 years of savings in 1 year that should be a warning sign. If, after a year of freelancing, you're not completely self-sustaining, I'd say it's time to re-evaluate your plan. You do have a PLAN right? You didn't just decide to try freelancing right? Please note that "looking for clients" is not a plan, it's a complete lack of a plan. If you can't explain to your mom why you're going to be a successful freelancer then I'd suggest you either take her advice or do something to prove you won't be moving back into her basement, if you're not there already.

Re: Ask HN: Mother driving me crazy over getting a job. What to do?

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Post by justintocci » Fri, Sep 13, 2013, 5:36 AM UTC

Steady as she goes. I remember seeing somewhere that it takes eighteen months to reach your prior salary. It took me longer but I blame the timing, I started on my own right when the economy tanked. If you want someone to talk to ring me on a Sunday afternoon and I'll tell you what I know.

Re: Ask HN: Mother driving me crazy over getting a job. What to do?

#4

Post by iamntz » Fri, Sep 13, 2013, 5:56 AM UTC

Just get a damn job!

Your problem is that you took a very risky path. From what you say, you didn't try the water with a finger, but you just did a cannon ball. Which is kinda wrong.

Get a full time job and you can do freelance after working hours, as a part time job. Risks are near to zero but chances to succeed are near to 100%.

You should say what do you know to do, maybe you get a job here, on HN.