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Don’t Waste Your Twenties

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Re: Don’t Waste Your Twenties

#4

  At Age 20: I was partying like a madman, it was awesome
  At Age 21: Graduated, seeing a great girl, making a little money, enjoying city life
  At Age 22: Still having fun, meeting and sleeping with new people
  At Age 23: Yup. Same.
  At Age 24: New girl, same awesome life
  At Age 25: Lots of international travel this year. More great friends made Fun!
  At Age 26: More of the same.
And I'm still doing financially fine (though have not ever really settled into home ownership, I'm too fond of packing everything in and moving round the world), and am building a business based on the technical experience I gained in that decade. Also now in my mid 30s I still like learning and I still enjoy risk-taking.

You'll never make me regret not taking life seriously, and channelling my awesome early-20s brain-power into socialising and enjoying myself.

tl;dr - sex, drugs and rock'n'roll

Re: Don’t Waste Your Twenties

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I hate these kinds of articles because they can put tremendous pressure on people. There isn't a "right" way to spend your twenties (or thirties, or any decade) and comparing yourself to Einstein and Newton and Kepler like this article does is worse than counterproductive. The only way you should concern yourself with living is to try to be happy every day, whatever that means to you. Listening to pundits showing you charts and graphs and science about how you're wasting your life will just invite stress and pressure.

Re: Don’t Waste Your Twenties

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I often think that if I could talk to myself when I was younger I would change a lot of things in my life but the truth is my younger self would not listen. By definition I made the decisions that I thought at the time were right.

If you don't have regrets you must be one of those alpha males I hear so much about.

Re: Don’t Waste Your Twenties

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post #5

I hate these kinds of articles because they can put tremendous pressure on people. There isn't a "right" way to spend your twenties (or thirties, or any decade) and comparing yourself to Einstein and Newton and Kepler like this article does is worse than counterproductive. The only way you should concern yourself with living is to try to be happy every day, whatever that means to you. Listening to pundits showing you…

Of course, but someone have to pay for adds.

Someone presents an opinion and you have someone else who presents his opinion and that is how we start a discussion.

"I work hard to enjoy my twenties"

"I discipline myself to enjoy my twenties"

"Or I do something else that others have came up how to enjoy my twenties"

Re: Don’t Waste Your Twenties

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Awesome article.

And I suspected that in a long time... And I fear I am too slow to do what I must.

At least, I DID went into some crazy life changing adventures last year, against all "adult" advice. But this year I already started to want to give up and go in a safer path.

I am 25 now.

Re: Don’t Waste Your Twenties

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What you do with your twenties really isn't the significant insight of the article. Though there is some merit in the conclusion:

The twenties are for launching, while the thirties are for building what you launched.

The main point is to recognize the state of your brain at a given age and its resulting effects:

The trick is simply to take advantage of each power in the season it is given

That is applicable regardless of chronological age.

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