American, also not a lawyer.
1. Having the domain is a good first step. As you can verify the registration date, you can claim copyright. (not trademark) This might be enough protection.
2. Sortof, but at a cost so high, I can't imagine why they'd do it in the first place. You'd also win any legal fights in the end, but at great cost (Lawyers ain't cheap).
Most will simply steal the idea and re-brand, not try and usurp your fledgling market. (see Facebook Poke for an example of destroying the little guy)
Your primary concern should be if someone else has already registered a similar name, and _they_ have priority over you.
4. Start with a Poor mans copyright, by mailing a certified letter to yourself with the outline of the idea, domain, pitch, etc. As it's date-stamped by the government, you can have it opened in court to prove you came up with the idea first. Used by authors and screenwriters seeking claim to the original ideas they generate, so no one can copy the idea without compensation.