I refuse to date someone who uses ChatGPT
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I refuse to date someone who uses ChatGPT
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Re: I refuse to date someone who uses ChatGPT
#2Drop another rung for the patriarchy- is chat just a very temporary stop gap en route to partnership parity or even matriarchal dominance?
Let’s just say intelligence is changing and wisdom is in deep collapse using this tech.
Our drive to be creative and chance failure and seek expert help dissolves in a general tool that automates what it is to be human.
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#3"A good friend recently told me that she spent a night with a man, and in the morning suggested they get breakfast together. He took out his phone, opened ChatGPT, and asked for restaurant suggestions. Why get close to someone who outsources decisions, including the fun ones like picking where to eat?"
Same logic applies to using Google, I guess? Or any mapping app? How about Yelp?
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#4"A good friend recently told me that she spent a night with a man, and in the morning suggested they get breakfast together. He took out his phone, opened ChatGPT, and asked for restaurant suggestions. Why get close to someone who outsources decisions, including the fun ones like picking where to eat?" Same logic applies to using Google, I guess? Or any mapping app? How about Yelp?
I think it shows someone who is incapable of using Yelp or Google :P
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#5While I am not a fan of the current LLM's and I consider myself an independent thinker I would also not be interested in someone shallow enough to care about it that much. She's probably never had a long term relationship and I do not envy anyone that ends up with her.
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#7This feels so much like 90s Wikipedia criticism.
There are lousy and lazy ways to use LLMs. There are also enlightening and powerful ways. Find someone curious who will explore them. Don't date people who habitually fight anything new.
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#8> Socrates insists that writing destroys memory and weakens the mind.
https://blogs.ubc.ca/etec540sept13/2013/09/29/socrates-writi...
I would bet that back in days some women would get ick from men not remembering everything but writing it down.
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#9> He took out his phone, opened ChatGPT, and asked for restaurant suggestions. Why get close to someone who outsources decisions, including the fun ones like picking where to eat? If someone is so lazy they’ll hit up ChatGPT to plan a first date, imagine how little effort they’ll spend six months in.
Do they have a similar reaction to searching "restaurants near here" in a maps app? Practically any time I go out to eat I'm either going to one or two favorite places, or I'm looking on the internet where something gives me a list of possibilities.
It's not like I've memorized every local restaurant, so looking online for recommendations online is a way to learn about new places.
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#10I can understand what she's saying. Using ChatGPT produces outcomes that are so mid and basic. Just average. I'd want to date someone more interesting than that.