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Tech Executive Falls Victim to $450k Scam on Dating Website

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Re: Tech Executive Falls Victim to $450k Scam on Dating Website

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> Shreya Datta spent months swiping through dating apps searching for a connection when she encountered "Ancel Mali," a self-proclaimed wine trader from France, on Hinge.

The context in which this sentence is presented is perfect, and I genuinely laughed my ass off upon reading it.

Re: Tech Executive Falls Victim to $450k Scam on Dating Website

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Wow. Native ads are getting wild.

In the middle of a story about getting crypto scammed:

“If you're interested in legitimate and lucrative investment opportunities, StartEngine presents a reliable platform where users can invest in promising startups. With a community of 1.8 million potential investors, StartEngine is shaping the future of startup financing and provides a trustworthy avenue for people seeking ways to grow their wealth.”

Re: Tech Executive Falls Victim to $450k Scam on Dating Website

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I find it difficult to sympathise with her. How you entrust someone you’ve never met with $450K is beyond me.

I wonder how persuasive this "Ancel Mali" can be. I guess with a known weakness (desire for connection) the scammer can game the victim by emotionally manipulating them, e.g. maybe he told her he gets an x% refer-a-friend bonus if she "invested" on this seemingly 3rd party site, "Why haven't you done it yet? It's not you giving me money, it's this site! Besides you'll get a high ROI quickly! Don't you love me?!", and playing a hot and cold game of being nice some days and then ignoring her other days, because "you still haven't invested!".

I suppose a lot of people are good at this kind of manipulation, e.g. members of cults like Scientology...

Re: Tech Executive Falls Victim to $450k Scam on Dating Website

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post #4

Wow. Native ads are getting wild. In the middle of a story about getting crypto scammed: “If you're interested in legitimate and lucrative investment opportunities, StartEngine presents a reliable platform where users can invest in promising startups. With a community of 1.8 million potential investors, StartEngine is shaping the future of startup financing and provides a trustworthy avenue for people seeking ways to…

I thought this paragraph was a quote of the scammer's message to the victim, but incorrectly formatted in the article...

Well, StartEngine, you're getting the opposite of advertisement.

Re: Tech Executive Falls Victim to $450k Scam on Dating Website

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What’s interesting in this case is that it’s a female that got scammed. “Pig Butchering Scheme” is a strange name to call it.

It comes from a Chinese analogy/metaphor. First you feed the pig to fatten it up, then when you're ready you butcher it.

Pig butchers will often spend weeks or months building up trust in a specific victim without even hinting at money.

Re: Tech Executive Falls Victim to $450k Scam on Dating Website

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I find it difficult to sympathise with her. How you entrust someone you’ve never met with $450K is beyond me.

I keep a fair amount of cash in a bank account whose managers I've never met, and I'm not even lonely!

Yes, since this is comparable at all to this situation.

I assume you didn't decide to use your bank account based on Hinge or similar dating app

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