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I quit Facebook, Instagram and other social sites They became boring

#1
I'm not the only one. I didn't quit because I hated them or because it invaded my privacy (after all I was using it and gave away my data because I wanted to)

I quit because they are boring, content and people are boring. I'm 30 now and before I had a group of friends with similar interests: high school and college. I was meeting new people with also similar interests so they were posting what was interesting to me and vice versa.

It was fun to be on FB, IG and such. But now when I lost touch with 99% of people it got boring. Some of them post pics of their kids, some of their job and so on. I don't care, I can't relate to that. I don't even talk to 99% of the people, so it turned into stalking each other.

Also following celebrities is not interesting to me, they live in totally different dimension. I feel like my "online social life" is dead.

Re: I quit Facebook, Instagram and other social sites They became boring

#4
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You'll be back on those platforms soon enough. That's the pattern.

Back for what? It's boring, I don't have any interest there

Quitting something addictive is never that easy. You'll be back in less than a week. I wonder if you'll even last 24 hours.

Re: I quit Facebook, Instagram and other social sites They became boring

#5
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Back for what? It's boring, I don't have any interest there

Quitting something addictive is never that easy. You'll be back in less than a week. I wonder if you'll even last 24 hours.

It has been a month and I feel no desire to go back

Re: I quit Facebook, Instagram and other social sites They became boring

#7
I agree, TikTok is the only platform that has maintained my interest to some degree because of the novelty of the content (built for discovery). But Twitter, FB, etc are the same old boring news cycles (even worse, sometimes reflexive topics like the popularization of The Current Thing meme, which is just a meta-news cycle but a news cycle all the same). I visit a few particular subreddits to keep up with stuff I care about but generally just socialize with my friends privately.

Fwiw, the platforms are aware of this shift (people shifting to preferring private content), and its behind a lot of changes like Instagram’s. But social media as we knew it (big public info dumps) were likely in an “attention bubble” over the past 15 years because of their sheer novelty.

Re: I quit Facebook, Instagram and other social sites They became boring

#8
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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Quitting something addictive is never that easy. You'll be back in less than a week. I wonder if you'll even last 24 hours.

It has been a month and I feel no desire to go back

Try quitting HN. If you are able to stop the urge to reply my message, then you are on a good path.
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