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Gender and Age Differences in Love Styles and Attitudes

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Re: Gender and Age Differences in Love Styles and Attitudes

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All things considered, I was expecting there to be much higher gap between genders and ages. At only one point is there more than a 10% difference. In my experience men and women claim entirely different wants and needs.

It's a meta-study based on already "summed-up" attributes, so at least two levels of information loss. And it's hardly qualitative. It can easily say, "both want X", but not touch at all "how" they express this want, or how they perceive X.

Re: Gender and Age Differences in Love Styles and Attitudes

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Apple Users only. Responses are not necessarily indicative of how the respondents will actually behave in real life.

>Responses are not necessarily indicative of how the respondents will actually behave in real life.

That's the case with any response anyone gives under almost all life contexts...

Re: Gender and Age Differences in Love Styles and Attitudes

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All things considered, I was expecting there to be much higher gap between genders and ages. At only one point is there more than a 10% difference. In my experience men and women claim entirely different wants and needs.

The differences between men and women are usually not as dramatic as standup comedy and television make them out to be. The differences aren't dramatic, but they are statistically significant.

Re: Gender and Age Differences in Love Styles and Attitudes

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What is missing here is a study of the desire to be alone.

I thought I had that desire most of my life and recently figured out that was far more about my major anxiety to be able to provide quality "service" (as the article calls it) in all relationships, from casual conversation to romantic. Obviously, there are still times I want to be alone, but I'm more aware if it's due to anxiety and try to deal with that feeling if it is. That's just what I figured out for myself, not trying to speak for anyone else.
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