What is the best way to focus? I'm often being distracted by everything around me while working. At the office, I heard what my colleague discuss and always want to jump in.
When wfh, noise from cars, tv, fam members talk...also borders me a lot. I've tried using headphone but I don't think it work. Can you guys give me some recommendation on how you apply to stay focus?
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Re: Ask HN: How to Stay Focus?
#2Work out what is distracting you.
If it is your own mind distracting you, then give yourself 10 minutes to do a task that are avoiding, and reward yourself afterwards. The reward should be small, but something you only do after you've finished the task.
If it is what others are saying that distracts you, then go back to the headphones and this time listen to Brown Noise loud enough that it wipes out what people are saying around you.
If it is email/chat/socials that are distracting you, then close all programs except for those that you need to do your job. If you have to have email open, set email rules to pull out the emails important for your job, and store the non-critical emails in a separate location so you don't worry about them.
I personally find that headphones help a lot, but for me I must listen to either Brown Noise (or white, or blue, or whatever is best for you) sounds, or listen to music that has no words and has no beat. Words in music distract me, and any beat in music also distracts. I've also found if I can't understand the language that singers are singing, that is less distracting, so Benedictine Monks is fine.
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#3Do you remember when you were a child and something held your fascination so tightly and deeply that you snapped out of a trance many hours later?
Look for that thing that you can dive into. Then block out the other things. Noise cancelling headphones, blocked out calendar, phone on silent, meal prep, wfh. Treat your time and attention as a limit and precious resource. Agency is a wonderful thing.
Re: Ask HN: How to Stay Focus?
#4If you have inner anxiety then it will prevent you from focusing. Check with yourself if you have some fundamental problem that is bugging you throughout life.
Re: Ask HN: How to Stay Focus?
#5Work out what is distracting you. If it is your own mind distracting you, then give yourself 10 minutes to do a task that are avoiding, and reward yourself afterwards. The reward should be small, but something you only do after you've finished the task. If it is what others are saying that distracts you, then go back to the headphones and this time listen to Brown Noise loud enough that it wipes out what people are s…
Wow. That's really useful advice. I can't find any music that helps me out. I've tried the sound that you'd recommended & White noise is good to me. Thanks a lot.
Re: Ask HN: How to Stay Focus?
#6Do you remember when you were a child and something held your fascination so tightly and deeply that you snapped out of a trance many hours later? Look for that thing that you can dive into. Then block out the other things. Noise cancelling headphones, blocked out calendar, phone on silent, meal prep, wfh. Treat your time and attention as a limit and precious resource. Agency is a wonderful thing.
Hmmm, I have some research and I found out that Adderall maybe a choice? What do you think?
Re: Ask HN: How to Stay Focus?
#7If you have inner anxiety then it will prevent you from focusing. Check with yourself if you have some fundamental problem that is bugging you throughout life.
I'm not sure I have any specific anxiety but I find out that I'm really really easy to be distracted.
Re: Ask HN: How to Stay Focus?
#8Work out what is distracting you. If it is your own mind distracting you, then give yourself 10 minutes to do a task that are avoiding, and reward yourself afterwards. The reward should be small, but something you only do after you've finished the task. If it is what others are saying that distracts you, then go back to the headphones and this time listen to Brown Noise loud enough that it wipes out what people are s…
I can recommend https://mynoise.net/ I gave them money like ages ago and I can still listen to all the soundscapes - really well done, you can adjust different channels of natural noise from professional recordings that the site owner did. There is also some free-listening noise on there.
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#9Sometimes distraction is not caused by the actual distractions around yourself but by problems with regulating your emotions - you may not want to do the thing you want to focus on, it may be too challenging or it may make you anxious.
One approach to overcome this is to try and partition the task into very small portions that you can do - that way you can make progress without being overwhelmed by the task.
Re: Ask HN: How to Stay Focus?
#10Do you remember when you were a child and something held your fascination so tightly and deeply that you snapped out of a trance many hours later? Look for that thing that you can dive into. Then block out the other things. Noise cancelling headphones, blocked out calendar, phone on silent, meal prep, wfh. Treat your time and attention as a limit and precious resource. Agency is a wonderful thing.
Hmmm, I have some research and I found out that Adderall maybe a choice? What do you think?
i haven't used it, hear it works for some people. my chemistry probably would not mix well with it in my system.
you may find longer lasting results cutting out bad habits, bad people, bad food, bad information, etc.