Ask HN: Confused: Stay in my comfort zone / work very hard for someone else ?

I have been confused about this for a while now. I have a sort-of stable job where I am doing just routine stuff and not learning much on the job (typical 9-5.30 job) I could, however, go out and try to find a new job where I could be learning a lot more. However, I would have to put in longer hours (9-8 or so) and would have very little time outside of the job to do anything.

Also, not learning much at the job keeps my mind in a switched-off mode where it is not engaged and being in this state for most of the day blocks any new ideas I might get.

A new job, although, would give my mind more fodder, I will probably have to work longer hours for someone else and I'm afraid I might be so tired from work that I might not be able to do any side projects anyhow.

Also, I am worried about leaving my current safety-net for the fear of the new job turning out to be worse than this one.

Anybody been in a similar situation before ? Any advice the community might have for me ?

I say this to pretty much everyone with these kinds of questions: It will never be less risky than it is today. You will never have fewer responsibilities than you have today. As you get older, you collect responsibilities and obligations and expenses that can't be dramatically reduced (like children and medical bills). If you are single, don't have kids, don't have a mortgage, you are stupid for avoiding economic risk that presents high opportunity for gain. Now is the only time you have to take on extremely high risk opportunities.

Sure, you can get promotions as you age, and get cost-of-living wage increases, and you can do it all very safely and without ever having taken a chance on being out of work or having to cancel your cable and stop eating out. But, you'll never have another time when it will be less painful to make mistakes.

So, there's no question here. If you don't have responsibilities that prevent you from taking chances, why are you even asking? Get off your ass and make something of yourself. (And if you do have responsibilities, like a wife and kids, you shouldn't be asking us. You should be asking them, because only you and they can make those decisions.)

Don't be a coward. Your scary decisions are nothing compared to the risks our ancestors had to take to make it this far, so do something worthwhile.

That's the thing. The team I work for, we have a ton of resources but we're just being inefficient due to poor management. People with little experience are running the show while the more senior people have to follow along. And it gets frustrating after a while to the point where there isn't a flow of ideas anymore.

"don't stay too comfortable for too long" : very well said!

You should question your assumptions. You are assuming you would have to put in longer hours at a new job. This assumption is limiting you analysis of the problem (and is a flawed assumption). Start with what you want and then develop a path to it.

Hope this helps.