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Best programs to protect kids from porn /monitor on internet?

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Re: Best programs to protect kids from porn /monitor on internet?

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If your on a mac, a lot of what you would want to see works OOTB with no fancy solution.

If your not on a mac your going to want more than openDNS, more along the lines of a full fledged proxy.

Take the first few opportunities to educate and let them go figure things out for themselves. You will both be happier with the approach... If you create limits they are going to figure out how to get around them (friends, starubucks, neighbors wifi).

Re: Best programs to protect kids from porn /monitor on internet?

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Talk to them about stuff before its a "thing." No matter what you do their friend from school will have figured out how to get around the school firewall and get to the "good" stuff on the Internet, and if you're kids haven't been talked to about it yet they will be at the mercy of their friend describing how they should interpret it.

You want them to recognize when predators try to create a chat session with them, how their presence on the Internet is perceived by others, and some basic eye opening about the wide variety of behaviors people get into once they are adults (and mid teens). For my daughters we started talking about this around the dinner table when they were about 10.

Re: Best programs to protect kids from porn /monitor on internet?

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post #3

Talk to them about stuff before its a "thing." No matter what you do their friend from school will have figured out how to get around the school firewall and get to the "good" stuff on the Internet, and if you're kids haven't been talked to about it yet they will be at the mercy of their friend describing how they should interpret it. You want them to recognize when predators try to create a chat session with them, h…

The best benefit of having conversations upfront is that there is a sound first response - another conversation - when some undesirable behavior happens...whether it's one that was discussed specifically or not.

Re: Best programs to protect kids from porn /monitor on internet?

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post #3

Talk to them about stuff before its a "thing." No matter what you do their friend from school will have figured out how to get around the school firewall and get to the "good" stuff on the Internet, and if you're kids haven't been talked to about it yet they will be at the mercy of their friend describing how they should interpret it. You want them to recognize when predators try to create a chat session with them, h…

Best advice. You can't prevent them forever, plus they can always watch porn on other devices, not just at home.

Also it depends on how old are the kids. Maybe they're already old enough to know what they are watching.