I gave you a link to the video where former American ambassador to the USSR is saying "though it was not a legally binding assurance, we gave categorical assurances to Gorbachev, back when the Soviet Union existed, that if a United Germany was able to stay in NATO, NATO would not be moved eastward".
You argue like you haven't seen it.
>just some the NATO members were positive
That's not true, the alliance itself gave the assurances.[0]
>the request was so unpopular
The polls consistently showed that, but it hadn't stopped Yuschenko from submitting the request.
>Russia's "security concerns": "if you subhumans don't do exactly what we say, we invade you and subjugate you, you are not a real country anyway".
And this dismissive attitude towards legitimate security concerns of Russia led to the current situation.
>This is the literal quote of what I said
You forgot to quote "Just like". "the US "midwifing" the coup in Ukraine in 2014" isn't "just like" what you wrote. Besides, you haven't even offered any sources for your statements. Is it because you blame Russia for anything you don't like?
[0] https://www.nato.int/en/about-us/official-texts-and-resource...