This reminds of of that one time when I was on a date with a girl from the history department who somehow bemusedly sat through my entire mini-lecture on comparing infinite sets. Twenty years and three kids later, she'll still occasionally look me straight in the eye and declare "my infinity is bigger than your infinity."
I'm curious. Did either of you ever notice the implicit philosophical assumptions that you have to make to come to the conclusion that one infinity can be larger than another? Despite the fact that this was actively debated for decades, modern math courses seldom acknowledge the fact that they are making unprovable intellectual leaps along the way.
That’s not at all true at the level where you are dealing with different infinities, usually, which tends to come after the (usually, fairly early) part dealing with proofs and the fact that all mathematics is dealing with “unprovable intellectual leaps” which are encoded into axioms, and everything in math which is provable is only provable based on a particular chosen set of axioms.
It may be true that math beyond that basic level doesn’t make a point of going back and explicitly reviewing that point, but it is just kind of implicit in everything later.