I'm not up to date with the latest developments in C++ but would't it be straightforward to do something like "#pragma pointer_safety strong" which would force the compiler to only accept the use of smart pointers or something along those lines. Was anything like this proposed so far?
That's what the "Profiles" feature is. The problem is that any nontrivial real world program in a non-GC language needs non-owning reference types to perform well, and you can't express the rules for safe use of non-owning references without augmenting the language. People have tried. You need something more sophisticated than using smart pointers for everything. In the limit, smart pointers for everything is just ca…
I don't see how that follows at all. What makes Python Python (and slow!) is dynamic dispatch everywhere down to the most primitive things. Refcounted smart pointers are a very minor thing in the big picture, which is why we've seen Python implementations without them (Jython, IronPython). Performance-wise, yes, refcounting certainly isn't cheap, but you just do that and keep everything else C++-like, the overall performance profile of such a language is still much closer to C++ than to something like Python.
You can also have refcounting + something like `ref` types in modern C# (which are essentially restricted-lifetime zero-overhead pointers with inferred or very simplistic lifetimes):
https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/dotnet/csharp/language-ref...
It doesn't cover all the cases that a full-fledged borrow checked with explicit lifetime annotations can, but it does cover quite a few; perhaps enough to adopt the position that refcounting is "good enough" for the rest.