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>Sounds like he was neuro divergent and his wife made him keep his obsession in the basement. Men do noting but chill: "They're losers, incels, etc". Men have cool hobbies that don't bother anyone: "They're neurodivergent". Men just can't catch a break these days.
If Men have the time and opportunity to do nothing but chill, or to have cool hobbies, then they are very definitely catching a break.
i know that feeling. i have been there. more than a year out of work, i could not focus on anything, whatever i did felt wrong because i thought i should use that time to apply to jobs. it was exhausting, and i was procrastinating a lot. i had to remind myself that i could not be writing job applications all day, and i used my hobbies to relax and get energy. so no, chilling or having cool hobbies are not a sign of someone catching a break. not without knowing more about their actual circumstances.