Is there reason to believe the stars are less of a dead end than Mars? It's easy to imagine us making a huge bet on interstellar travel, and just dying in interstellar space. Surely there's untold abundance in the stars, but if you can't actually reach it, then it may as well be a mirage.
Whenever I consider the possibility of interplanetary colonization, I come back to the conclusion that the only way to make it feasible is to reorient our economy towards sustainability in order to survive on Earth indefinitely. It's going to take a long, long time to develop the required technology, there's no real reason to believe artificial terraforming is even possible (since our sample size is 0), and even if it is it may take thousands or millions of years to complete.
I'm not being facetious with that last part, in the absence of information to the contrary, we should expect technology that works via geologic processes to run on a geologic timescale. I personally think artificial terraforming is probably possible, and that we could accelerate it to be much faster than the natural terraforming of Earth. But accelerating a 2 billion year process to be 10000x faster still takes 200k years. (ETA: I suppose a lot of that was the planet forming and the rate of bombardment falling to something tolerable, which eg Mars was already subject to, so maybe call it 1B/100k years.)