This entire discussion is about the type system and how it interacts with the language. Go does not have sum types, so the producer cannot signal to the consumer what it can produce and what the consumer has to handle. The consumer in Go must pessimistically assume the all combinations of return values are possible, where in a language with a decent type system the possible cases can be enumerated and handled appropriately.
>Idiomatic Go sees the caller in control.
This is simply not true. If the producer never returns A+B, then the consumer is never going to magic that into existence. The producer is always in control of what the producer returns.
>Specifically, Result puts the producer in control.
Result is just a convenience type for the very common case of a function returning "A or B, but never both or neither." If your producer does not match that, you are not forced by the language to use Result. In Go, you are always forced by the language to return a value of type "A or B, including both or neither." The consumer isn't any more in control, it just has to guess whether "both or neither" are possible return types. In Rust/Haskell/Ocaml/Java, hell even C++ with variant or C with union, I can return something or with a more restrictive type. Honestly Go is uniquely incapable of representing these cases in its type system and control flow.