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>but no one's life has ever been improved by deprivation. I think there's several sects of religion which disagree with you. IE Catholic Lent, the entire amish religion, monks of any kind.. I'm also curious what your take on chores and allowance is then as well?
Surely, you know that there is a difference between abstinence (voluntary, pursued for esoteric reasons) and deprivation (involuntary, imposed by a malevolent society). I think children should do enough chores to have a sense of self-efficacy. Same with survival skills. Being college-age or older and not knowing how to cook or do basic cleaning is an embarrassment, even if you're rich. All that said, if you want your…
So charing the college student rent and bills is not providing a sense of self efficacy (I like you put it like that). I also agree its all to teach how to do something without it owning you, and it is a life skill not all have.