Earlier quoted context omitted.
After the last iOS update, Apple nagged the shit out of me to setup Apple Pay, for two days. No way to say ‘fuck off’ - only ‘remind me’. No obvious way to stop the nagging. Finally I gave them just the tip, and then pulled out before the money shot, and that seems to have shut them up for now.
How is that even relevant? Your phone was trying to onboard you to a _free to use_ feature. If you can’t see the difference here, then I suspect there probably was a button labelled “fuck off” and you didn’t see that either. Honestly.
At no time has the term ‘dark pattern’ ever been necessarily dependent on getting you to pay money.
Your argument is that I sound stupid, so I must be wrong?
There’s no button.
https://www.cultofmac.com/538999/apple-under-fire-apple-pay-...
https://www.wsj.com/articles/apple-insists-iphone-users-enro...
My other peeve is when streaming apps put a button in the bottom-right of an ad, same size and style as the ‘skip’ button one reflexively clicks. Except it turns out to be an ‘engage even moar’ button.