> You lose the one huge opportunity in adult life for making new relationships - and that's at work, in the office.
Yes, but there are other ways to build relationships. Get involved in your community, donate your time, etc.
> I have some friend who have been working at a company who went remote-first and after 5 years they do not feel identified with the company anymore. It's just a job. You could work for someone else and you wouldn't even notice.
That's a feature not a bug. It is just a job. Look, I enjoy my job. I love the product I'm building. I like the people I work with. Being remote for over a half decade now doesn't change that. But, it's just a job. My life is so much more than just what I do for money.
> Also, working from home is only as convenient as your life situation allows it. Have kids? Bad luck. Live in the city because you enjoy city life? Sorry you have to convert you bedroom into your office during the day because you can't afford to have an additional room. You are a people's person and feel more energetic and productive when working with others face to face? Well, sorry, your team is mostly remote.
Huh? We don't have kids but we do foster and we have room for the kids and an office for my wife and I (we do have to share that). We see plenty of people outside of work that seeing co-workers in person doesn't matter.
> Please, let us just top playing down the importance of the office.
How about we stop with one size fits all?
> It is important and it has tons of benefits for the team, as opposed to the benefits for the individuals.
I'm a very productive member of my team. I'm a SME on our most important product. People know they can contact me when they need and I'll have solutions. I'm hugely beneficial to my team (not really trying to toot a horn, just making a point), and nobody has ever once in all the years I've been here complained about me being remote.