You literally said "everyone". If you're best friend knows, and your Mom knows, and your neighbor knows, and your dog knows, and your boss knows, but you don't? then you're either a fool or no one likes you.

but note: the "you" in that sentence isn't you. I'm not saying you are a fool. Then why did you say I was? "let's be generous and assume the question is just naive"

Again, you've never established a right. And there is also this horrible assumption or belief that once doing porn forever marks or stains you. Well, certainly some people believe that. But I do not, and I challenge it.