Something to keep in mind - linear types are on their way[1], with exactly this usecase in mind. Simon Peyton Jones gave an excellent presentation on the topic[2], briefly discussing exceptions, as well as giving a mention to ResourceT and the phantom type solution in the article (described as channel-passing). [1] https://arxiv.org/abs/1710.09756 [2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t0mhvd3-60Y
Please, don't add them to the language. Use the library approach instead, it is much more Haskellish.
Unless, of course, you're implying it's very haskellish to implement libraries with huge usability gotchas (of which ResourceT was one until the Ghosts of Departed Proofs paper reminded us we can reuse the machinery of ST), then I totally agree.